Declan’s Story
Declan's story, told by his sister Julie
My beloved brother, Declan, was the youngest of four. A proud electrician by trade, who farmed in the evenings. He was gentle, kind, quiet, modest, extremely caring, and a great listener. Living with our mum in Dungannon, Tyrone, he was truly everyone’s blue eyed boy.
In 2023, after months of headaches, Declan was diagnosed with a Grade 4 Glioblastoma at just 40 years old. Despite surgery, treatment, and every possible effort, there was no overcoming this aggressive cancer. Yet Declan faced every challenge with quiet strength and dignity, living life as fully as he could.
Exactly one year after his diagnosis, Declan was admitted to hospital after suffering severe brain seizures. It was then we received the devastating news that he had only weeks left to live.
As Declan’s condition worsened, he began experiencing painful headaches and frequent seizures. Knowing that his comfort was our priority, Declan was admitted to Evora Hospice, on 3rd December 2024 and cared for with incredible compassion.
Though he could no longer speak, Declan was never alone. Someone was always by his side, to ease and reassure him. This brought such relief to us all, knowing Declan wasn’t alone or in danger.
At the young age of 42, after a brave battle with cancer, Declan passed away peacefully on 2nd January 2025.
We would have loved to take Declan home during his last weeks of life. The truth, however, we feared that he would be in pain, and as a family, decided that the hospice was the best and right choice for Declan to ensure he remained comfortable and pain free.
The doctors, nurses, social workers, chaplain, and volunteers are the very heart of the hospice. They are incredible at what they do, carrying out their work with such love, respect, and compassion for those who need it most.
Going to the hospice for the first time can be daunting, but your loved ones are in the best hands they can be! We were so appreciative of the care Declan and ourselves received.
To honour Declan and the exceptional care he received, our family held a fundraiser in September, raising over £51,000 for Evora Hospice. It brings us comfort to know that others who face similar journeys will find the same compassion and support that carried us through.
