Julie Ann’s Story
Julie Ann Purdy from Lurgan talks about her father’s experience of the Hospice 13 years ago and how she feels a strong connection to it.
A relative’s story- Julie Ann Purdy
My connection to the Hospice started over 13 years ago when my father, William, fell ill. My Dad had been in hospital for several weeks before being diagnosed with cancer.
When Dad arrived at the Hospice, he was in significant pain. Within an hour, the Hospice staff identified his needs and made him comfortable. He was even able to sit up and smile for the first time in a long time. The staff’s expertise and specialisation were immediately apparent to us.
The Hospice’s strap-line was “Dignity in caring”, which reflects the staff approach. They regularly checked on my Dad to ensure he was not in pain, and on his final day, the doctor clearly explained the process we were about to face. The nurses were equally supportive, always available but never intrusive. Despite the circumstances, there was a sense of calmness, warmth and control that prevented any panic. Dad’s condition deteriorated rapidly and he passed away on the fifth day.
No one wishes to need hospice care, but I am profoundly grateful it exists. The compassion and professionalism my family experienced made an incredibly challenging time a bit more bearable.
The Hospice put my family at ease and took the burden of caring for my Dad away. That allowed us to focus on making the most of the time we had left together.
I want to give something back to the Hospice so I began volunteering in January 2023. I help run the monthly Family Night for children who have been bereaved. I love working with the children and their parents and would recommend volunteering to everyone.